April 28, 2007
Relationships-Men: Never Stop Giving Symbols Of Love
Expressions of your love can be shown in many ways, but none are most important than little love symbols that can mean so much to your lady. A women needs to have symbols of love in her relationship. An example would be when a man brings home flowers, they validate her beauty, femininity, and her love as being of great value. Women need to be given flowers and other related symbols of love, on a regular basis. For her, flowers are a symbol of a man's desire to be with her and they make his love concrete. It is too bad when a man assumes that she will tire of of his little gifts and therefore stops giving them to her.
All forms of presents, big or small, all have a very important romantic function. They help a women know that she is indeed special. She feels special when he treats her in a special way. Giving presents is a way of honoring a woman's need to be reassured.
Little love notes can also be an excellent and effective symbol of love to give to your wife or girlfriend. Although they are inexpensive and easy to give, love notes are reminders that simply reassure them of your ongoing love for them. It is not necessary to be original or even creative with your love notes as these little reminders can be written on cards that accompany a small present or flower, or they can be given as is. When giving a card, try hiding it in a place where your partner will be surprised. These reminders can also be expressed by surprise phone calls whose simply purpose is to say "I love you." Emily, a married women in her late thirties says, "My husband leaves me a love note almost every day in my lunch bag before he goes to work, and I never get tired of it. Sometimes when he makes me lunch before going to work, I open my sandwich to find another little sweet note. I love it."
Many men have the natural instincts to know how and when to give symbols of love during the beginning of the relationship. They do not need to be reminded to go the extra mile for their ladies without being asked. Flowers are given for no reason and chocolates are bought just because he cares. Love notes are hidden in discovered by his lady without even thinking about it. But unfortunately these things stop after a while because the men mistakenly assume that the gesture is getting old or, even worse, that the gesture is no longer necessary.
Filed under Spouse/Significant Other by Jerry Stearns



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